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- Course questions: most are answered in the FAQ.
- Court requirements: read the court letters page first, then email us your state, county, and requirement details.
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- Media & speaking: email with "Media" in the subject line. Dr. John has been featured in U.S. News & World Report, SELF, Reader's Digest, and Fatherly, and speaks regularly at organizations including Stanford Medical School and Kaiser Permanente.
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