How do you best deal with your anger? And what happens when that don’t work? Some of the traditional tools for processing anger include exercise or breathing deeply. These are all typical tools to deal with frustration. But what about those situations when you just can’t get a handle on it? Here are the top 3 tools to help be less angry in your relationships.
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Dr. John Schinnerer, an expert in positive psychology and anger management, is revolutionizing the way in which people make sense of the mind, behavior and emotion. In 2011, he was one of three experts to consult with Pixar on the Academy Award-winning movie, Inside Out. He has developed a unique coaching methodology which combines the best aspects of entertainment, humor, sports psychology, positive psychology and emotional management techniques. He is a life coach, executive coach and anger management coach. His offices are in Danville, California. He graduated from U.C. Berkeley with a Ph.D. in educational psychology. His latest venture is guiding men through separation and divorce. He offers group and individual sessions for men going through divorce in Danville, CA. Find out more at DivorceSupport4Men.com. Other sites of Dr. John's include GuideToSelf.com, WebAngerManagement.com, and HowCanIGetRidofAnxiety.com.
The question “How can I be happy?” has been asked by philosophers for 1000’s of years. Recently, positive psychology has taken a scientific approach to answering this question. So here are the top answers to the most important question known to humankind.
All of that thinking, all of the following what adults told me I needed to do to be “successful,” all of the daily ass-busting to overachieve, none of that made me happy, contented or relaxed. So what did make me happy? Great question!
Aristotle said, “Anybody can become angry – that is easy, but to be angry with the right person, to the right degree, at the right time, for the right purpose, and in the right way – that is not within everybody’s power and is not easy.” It fascinates me that, 2300 years later, we still wrestle with this difficulty.
Exciting new study just emerged from Dacher Keltner’s lab at U.C. Berkeley showing that there are 27 distinct categories of emotion.This overturns a long-standing belief within psychology that there are six categories of emotion a la Paul Ekman.
By Marcus Clarke Most of us need something to fortify ourselves first thing in the morning; a coffee, a shower, listening to the radio on the way to work. We take these as necessary habits that enable us to get through the day. But what if there are particular things you could do in the […]
This class has helped me in so very many ways. I’m so glad that I spent my money on this course to help myself to help others to improve all of these situations. So I am writing you to let you know that I do feel like I have improved myself through your book and through the 15 hour anger management course. I was very upset, frustrated and mad at the beginning but I got myself together, saw that it was someone else that was having a bad day and move forward, where before I would’ve exploded, blown up the phone, text over and over and over, and made the situation worse. So, I want to say thank you, thank you, thank you so very much for your knowledge, for your time and your help that you have allowed me to grow and to better handle myself in situations to help others and to help my health!
Anger is a natural, human emotion. There is nothing destructive about anger. It demands our attention when our health is in danger, when a boundary has been crossed, or when someone takes advantage of us. However, how one behaves when angry may be either destructive or constructive. Being mindful when angry does not mean the anger is ignored, suppressed or denied. Being mindful does not mean that one behaves in destructive ways. Rather, being mindful when angry means a) recognizing the anger, b) labeling it, and c) choosing the best action to take.
The key to managing anger in your relationship is all about how well you deal with disagreement – what you do when you begin to get mad with your significant other
Dr. John Schinnerer How do you get through the intense feelings, such as anger, rage and hurt, that frequently occur with separation and divorce? How do you move forward constructively? Here are the best ways to divorce with dignity while holding onto your financial savings, your cool and your calm. Understand How Anger Operates Emotions tell you whether or not […]
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